OUT OF THE HOUSE BONDAGE ACCESSORIES

 

 

 
I like for Carly to be constantly aware of her sexuality. To help her maintain this constant awareness I often have her wear reminders of this when she is out of the house. Often we are together, but it is just as likely that she may be encumbered with an item of bondage or discomfort even when I am away.

For many in the alternative lifestyle scene this is a common practice. The owned partner is often required to wear a collar, piercing or item of jewelry as a symbol of their owned status. For us a similar symbolism applies - but for me I like the element of control that I get from forcing it. Additionally I like the fact that the items I have her wear often cause her pain or discomfort. I think Carly likes the potential for discovery and humiliation. To be honest I think she gets off knowing that she is doing something most girls only dream of and would never dare do themselves.

The 'O' ring has been a symbol in the fetish community since "The Story of O" became popular as a book and then a movie years ago. Carly likes to wear two O-rings locked together as this has special meaning for her.

I know that we are just beginners at this, and quite frankly our out of the house encounters pale in comparison with what some of you have done. But even this excites us because we know the potential for ever more edgy exploits.

 

Many of the items Carly has worn are quite common. Ben-Wa balls for example. I usually insist on six to ten depending upon the size. What makes it a bit more exciting is insisting that she wear a skirt or dress with no panties, so that if she accidentally drops one it will fall on the floor and she will be required to retrieve it in public. This in fact happened when we were out to dinner one night in a restaurant atop a sky scraper. I can think of no better motivation for her to work on her muscular control.
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Butt plugs are another common item of apparel ideally suited to excursions out of the house. Carly is not as fond of wearing these in public which of course makes them all the more appealing to me. I often relent and allow her to wear a small one. But she has managed to accept some extremely large plugs and I often force her to wear these on brief excursions outside. We have a mutual friend who is sometimes required to work while she is plugged, so I look forward to ‘stretching' Carly's endurance. We have already had several lengthy excursions, and she can become quite irritable toward the end of a long session. Nevertheless I enjoy the thought of keeping her plugged for hours at a time and look forward to ever more challenging sessions.

 

Now on to the more exotic. Many years ago I saw in a magazine a woman wearing a pair of laced leather straps as a bra. I liked the way the straps shaped her breasts and forced her nipples outward.
A friend made just such a leather bra for Carly. But since I like to remain in control, I had him add a padlock closure for the bra in back. It was made in such a way that the lock lays as flat as possible. I make Carly wear this bra in public, and even to work occasionally. Depending upon what is worn over, it is conservative enough that most people would not suspect that she is locked into a leather bra. The careful observer might notice a slightly larger than normal closure in the back, and the fact that her nipples push forcefully into the fabric of her blouse or sweater.

 

Now that I had her breasts secured in leather while at work, I desperately wanted something to secure her lower torso. I wanted something that I could secure upon her that she could not remove. A chastity belt of sorts although I didn't give a damn about her chastity. I wanted something comfortable enough to wear all day, but something unremoveable. With the help of my devious friends I came up with a leather lower body harness that locks into place. The big challenge was to design a locking closure that could not be detected by her coworkers. I finally came up with a series of leather straps that interlocked with each other. All the straps came together at a central location at he crotch where a padlock was attached to prevent their removal. I liked the fact that the lock is located at her crotch both from the symbolism it imparts and the fact that if she sits down she has to sit on the lock. I started with fairly small locks, but have moved to locks of ever increasing size. I like the weight of the bigger locks and the fact that she can feel it either while walking or sitting. In fact I call it the awareness harness.

 

Sometimes the best way to hide something is to put it in plain site. Occasionally I use rope to tie her shoes onto her. If anyone has noticed, they haven't mentioned it.

 

A nice rope belt is another fashion accessory that I like. (Especially if she can't find the knot.)

 

  
I love high heels. I think women should always wear them. I'm also aware of how many women hate them and will take them off at the first opportunity. So I guess its natural that heel locks are one of my favorite bondage accessories. I just love the sound of that lock clicking into place - and knowing that she can't remove them until I release her from them. (We've tested them and trust me - they work.)

 

I think the ultimate symbol of a girl's sexuality is her nipples. It would be great if we could clamp or torment them while they are in public. But since they are so prominent under clothing and draw such scrutiny from men and women alike it is difficult to modify them without drawing too much attention. The lucky girls that have had their nipples pierced have come up with the best solution to this problem. But there are other ways to make a girl aware of her nipples, and thus her sexuality, in public.

I am more than happy to pick up on the ideas of others. In an Internet forum a girl said that she sometimes wears tacks in her bra. This is an excellent suggestion, and I have given Carly the experience. I particularly like having her wear a tack bra when in a crowded environment.

 
Nipple shields are another excellent way to keep a girl aware of her nipples. They lay fairly well under clothing and she can wear them a long time. I particularly like these because the bolts screw directly into her tits. After she has worn them awhile I sometimes tighten them for good effect.

 

Some out-of-the-house experiences are very simple. Rope, for example, is one of the most obvious. It may be as simple as tying her hands to perform a simple task. Or it could be much more complicated - a rope bra or a rope dress perhaps.

I remember one time when we went to dinner with friends. I had wanted to put on a nice rope dress for her to wear under her clothes, but had somehow allowed her to talk me into something ‘simpler'. So instead I roped her above the knees in a loose hobble and fastened ropes around her waist to prevent the slack in the rope from dropping too far into sight. It was a mistake. We had barely made it across the parking lot into the restaurant when some of the ropes started unraveling and she made a desperate dash to the ladies room. Lesson: Don't let her talk you into doing something simple when what she really needs is the full treatment.

 

Other items are more outrageous. The "Liplock" was conceived to be an item that Carly can wear in public, and she has in fact worn it to dinner. I like making her wear in public this massive tool that simultaneously penetrates and clamps her.

 

The "J-hook" is an offshoot of the Liplock It actually works best under jeans. The hook is shaped in such a way as it deeply penetrates the wearer while the other end of the J presses firmly on the clit and pubic bone. Whether walking or sitting, the girl receives sensations that can be quite stimulating. Yet she must remain aware that she is penetrated and be careful not to move too quickly into an uncomfortable position. Pleasure and awareness - the perfect combination.
 


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The J-hook can be tied into position, but I think most girls will make the effort required to keep themselves sufficiently penetrated and keep the hard base of the J firmly pressing upon their clit.

I have also made Carly wear the J-hook in public under a dress. This is very difficult because she has to constantly use her muscles too keep it from falling out.

 

We all love to see women wearing high heels and are deeply appreciative of the women who wear these delightful fashions. But who of us has not heard the complaints of a woman wearing them. Carly is no exception, so I took it upon myself to help her in this regard. Knowing that I could not change the basic design of the shoes, I decided that the next best approach would be to distract her attention from the shoes themselves. I figured that placing spikes in the arch of her foot would adequately detract from any other bothersome sensations associated with the wearing of high heels.

It appears to work. Whenever I have her wear shoe spikes she rarely mentions any other source of discomfort.

She has worn them on several occasions now, but she has not yet requested to go dancing in them. She calls them her "arch enemies".

As Carly climbs the stairs, can you see the spikes in her arches?

Click on each photo for a closer look.

WARNING

Shoe spikes can be dangerous.

Use common sense and be careful!

 

So if you are kinky like we are, pay attention when you are out. Maybe you will discover Carly or some other kinky girl wearing something designed to please her (or her master or boyfriend). She may become embarrassed or humiliated to be discovered - but that's not always a bad thing either.